You ever just wanted someone soo bad but you know you couldn't have them because it would bring bad business. And then, you know you have it bad when they don't even have to be present in a room (or the same state) but you still can't get them off your mind. But the worse case scenario is wanting to be with someone soo bad but you know that person is already in a relationship with someone else. It sucks! I guess that is why that saying of "We always want what we can't have" got created for situations like these. It's a case of tainted love. The toughest part in this whole fiasco is when feelings are on the line from both the girl and the guy (or girl/girl or boy/boy...I don't discriminate okay!) and there is nothing they can do about their situations to be with each other. It's never easy to understand really...and actually there is know real explanation why people put themselves through this misery.
I guess people live with a bit of optimism that one day that their situations will be different so they can be together. But everyone knows time has no favorites, in fact, time has no mercy so with that said...I say if you have an opportunity to be with someone that you WANT to be with then take advantage of it. This way your not living everyday wondering your "woulda, coulda, shoulda's" about how things can be for you all. On the other hand, if you know this relationship would bring more heartache then happiness then you should walk away from it. Yeah I know what your thinking...this isn't going to make you happy. But if you know deep down inside that it wouldn't work anyway then your happiness would be in jeopardy right? It's a very tough decision but sometimes letting go seems like the best thing to do because what else do have to hold on to?...Think about it? xoxo