The Lipstick Memoir! oX

RIP to the legendary Etta James

2012-01-21T11:18:00.004-05:00

In honor of Etta James,' I want to share with you all ONE of my favorite songs "Sunday Kind of Love." I hope you fall in love with it as much as I did. Etta, you will truly be missed, thank you for you for being a pioneer of music! Xo

Photo Courtesy of sfweekly.com

Five places I would like to visit are...

2012-01-18T21:08:00.003-05:00

1) New Orleans-I'm too excited to try authentic Creole/Cajun food, it warms my belly just the thought of it!

2) HAWAII!!!-Doesn't matter which island, I just want to be amongst the waterfalls...that is all!

3) Italy- Again, I would love to try some authentic Italian food and I really looking forward to the architecture, music/arts and of course SHOPPING!

4) Greece-I can't wait to see that Cerulean blue water up close and personal...gorgeous!

5) Africa-Every person I know that has been to the motherland said it has changed their life!

Photo Courtesy of Flickr.com/By Yongmei

It's 2012..NOW WHAT?!?

2012-01-18T20:45:00.003-05:00

It's a New Year and yet after five days into the start of 2012, there are already people breaking their resolutions for the New Year. It's sad but it's true. I'll never understand why people are so hard on their selves in keeping up with their "resolutions." Many people place high expectations on changing who they are so early on in the year when really you have a whole 11 other months to get it right! So RELAX. If you mess up, don't dwell on it, move on. Time waits for no one and everyday is a NEW day to put your best foot forward. I was on Twitter this morning and one of my followers had a simple tweet that stuck with me: Chapter 2012, p. 5 out of 360. Get it? Here is my analysis of this tweet: YOU are the author of the 2012 chapter of your life, each day is a new page ready to be filled with your experiences/lessons learned and finally, you have 360 future pages to look forward to each day that are waiting to capture your growth. No one really knows what's in store for them this year but keep dreaming, believing, progressing, achieving and your 2012 will be your best year yet!

Photo Courtesy of Flickr.com/By Alshepmcr

Cheers to the New Year!

2011-12-29T20:08:00.002-05:00

This post is not about resolutions because I don't really believe in those but I do believe in having goals! There are many things I wish to accomplish during my time here on planet Earth and as well know, time is unforgiving. With this in mind, its important to act on opportunity every chance we get! Looking back on 2011, I realize this was the year of growth for me. I spent a lot of time this year soul searching which has attributed to my growth periods throughout the year. I tried new things, I made mistakes, I isolated myself from the unnecessary and I embraced more important things in my life and for that, I'm forever greatful. I like the woman I'm becoming but most of all I love that my faith has played a major role in getting me to this point in my life. I already know 2012 is going to be amazing because the man above told me so and I'm so looking forward to the new changes, new growth and new challenges that will come my way. BRING IT ON BABY! It may sound cliche but I truly believe everything happens for a reason (good, bad, happy or sad), it's life! I wouldn't take back a thing because it was already written for me to through these experiences.

*Raises a glass of sparkling apple cider* Cheers to YOU my fellow bloggers and readers, may 2012 be filled with phenomenal love, laughter and light! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! *throws confetti*

Photo Courtesy Flickr.com/By Photophil2012

Beyonce told me to "Listen"

2011-12-26T11:23:00.004-05:00

I just LOVE this song and for some reason, I felt moved to post it! Enjoy!

In the next year, I'm going to...

2011-12-26T11:03:00.005-05:00

1) Love more

2) Live more

3) Laugh more

4) Give more

5) Learn more

6) Reach more

7) Grow more

8) Listen more

9) Share more

10) Care more.

Photo by Flickr.com/Meredith_Farmer

Season Greetings! oX

2011-12-20T21:44:00.003-05:00

Hello my lovely fellow bloggers +readers!

I know I haven't been blogging that much but hey can you blame me...the season of holiday cheer is amongst us and I have been super busy with life as we all know it! Anyhoo, I wanted to drop in and wish you all HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!! I hope everyone will enjoy this much needed break in spending time with loved ones and dear friends (old & new).

Agaian, happy holidays *cheers*!!!!

ELLe. ox

Photo courtesy of www.readysetwrap.com.com

Bizarre holiday traditions anyone?

2011-12-12T17:34:00.005-05:00

Do you have any bizarre holiday traditions? I was just sitting here thinking about the holidays and how I KNOW there has got to be something outlandish going around this time of year. So I "Googled" it and I discovered there are some pretty interesting traditions that go on around different parts of the world during this season. I found this article on TopTenz.net called "Top 10 Bizarre Christmas Traditions" and I must say this list was pretty entertaining. While most Americans find this time of year to be full of love and laughter with family and friends, other parts of the world look at the holiday season as superstitious, a time for dead spirits, or even evil (yikes!). Who knew?

For example, apparently in Czech, women who are single throw one of their shoes behind their backs with their backs to their door. Depending how the shoe lands (the heel faces the door) it means you'll get married within a year! Or in Norway, apparently, people hide their brooms on Christmas Eve for the fear that evil/witches will come for them. According to a Travel + Leisure article called, "World's Strangest Holiday Traditions" people in Japan celebrate Christmas with the THE COLONEL...KFC that is! A nice bucket of chicken rounds out their x-mas dinner! In Ukraine, they cover their Christmas trees in spider webs! This dates back to an old fairy tale! Who knew?

P.S. In case you are wondering, the picture above is an upside down Christmas tree! Apparently, some people like to defy gravity on the holiday too! hehe

Photo courtesy of www.gayheartsweep.com

My 10 favorite sounds...

2011-12-12T17:18:00.004-05:00

1) Rain (My FAVORITE)

2) Birds Chirping

3) Wind Chimes

3) Soft thunder

4) Music/Instruments

5) Heart beat

6) Laughter

7) Chalk writings on sidewalk/board

9) Breeze

10) Ice Cream truck bell/song (haha!)

Photo Courtesy of Flickr/ By Scooby35

12.1.11: World AIDS Day

2011-12-01T18:53:00.003-05:00

Drake says "[We're] Doing it Wrong"

2011-11-29T18:37:00.006-05:00

"We live in a generation of, not being in love and not being together, but we sure make it feel like we're together, cause we're scared to see each other with somebody else..." -Drake "Take Care"

There is something about this line in Drake's latest album "Take Care" that speaks volumes about how young people today look at love. Naturally, people want love, to be in love and love being in "love" but yet it seems like no one ever comes out winning in the grand scheme of things. Everyone wants love but no one REALLY wants to put the work in to get it, no one is willing to make the sacrifice for it, no one is ever ready to experience the joy AND the pain that comes with love. It's not smoke and mirrors people...love is WORK. It's earned...it can't be taken for granted and furthermore it's not something you just "do" because everyone else is doing it.

It's selfless, sacred, rare (looked at the divorce rate much?), pure and when YOU KNOW IT'S REAL some say it's a "indescribable feeling." So why is it we want it but we are scared to make the commitment to it? It just doesn't make sense. When "true" love is staring at you in the face, you do everything in power to repel it (i.e. cheating, lying, cheating, manipulative, conniving). If this is the future of love for our generation then we are sooo doomed. We can only reverse this curse by making a decision today that we will no longer play with the hearts of others for our own benefit. It's not a game! There are far too many broken hearts roaming the Earth, we don't need to add anymore! Let's get back to loving, let's get back to romancing, let's get back the simple things, let's get back to honesty, let's get back to trusting, let's get back to L O V E...

Photo Courtesy of Flikr.com/By GreenLaces

Why I HATE Black Friday!

2011-11-25T20:22:00.003-05:00

Ok...so I'm never excited about the day after Thanksgiving which is better known as "Black Friday" because people go absolutely crazy! And let me remind you guys, I don't DO crazy, therefore, this day will NEVER EVER appeal to me. I just don't get it! Why is it one day out of the year people go crazy in public all for a sale. And furthermore, what makes people so excited to camp out the night before, wait in long lines and potentially risk their lives for the latest and greatest gadget/toys for the holiday season...I JUST DON'T GET IT!!!! You always hear about people getting killed or trampled to death, ran over by shopping carts, tazered (yeah I heard about this today), pepper sprayed (happened this year too), fighting (this happens EVERY year) over some of the most meaningless things. It's not worth it! It really is disgusting that people even carry on this way in public especially for a "sale" or "deal." Why can't people act civilized when they go shopping any other time out of the year? So what if this ONE day offers the lowest deals on items, it's not like another sale isn't ever going to happen in the world sheesh! I'm over it...

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!

2011-11-23T18:11:00.000-05:00

My favorite Thanksgiving dishes are...

2011-11-23T18:02:00.004-05:00

Baked Mac-n-Cheese and Candied Yams!!!! My Thanksgiving is simple not functional without both of these magnificient side dishes on my plate. I love them so much that I typically eat both of these items together (it's just something about that sweet & salty). They bring me comfort, joy and of course a happy tummy.

What are you favorite Thanksgiving dishes?

Photo Courtesy of Flickr.com/By Moonjazz

Are you a victim of Single City Syndrome?

2011-11-15T17:38:00.003-05:00

Did you ever think where you live, work and play could actually be working against your love life? It's human nature to want companionship but it's worse when you want it but it isn't available to you. It's no secret that there is an EXTREME male to female shortage these days and the quality of both sexes are even more scarce (yikes!). So what to do? Do you risk your career, your stability to move to a different city to find "maybe" the love of your life? Or do you stay where you are and continue to complain about not having a dating life? It's a difficult decision (definitely a BIG risk) but I think it all just boils down to what you are willing to do to have love in your life. You can definitely pick either course because at the end of the day, it's your life or you can make a more sensible decision to really think about how you can join the two in your life. As we have all heard, "money doesn't buy happiness" and if love is something you want in your life, then you should be willing to make some sacrifices to get it (Please DO NOT quit your day job). There are mediums to help alleviate this issue such as:

1) Use your paid vacation time!- Completely remove yourself from anything familiar to you and take an exciting voyage to a new place. It's a great opportunity to see new places but it's also a temporary time to live like a resident in your vacation spot, so get out there and mix and mingle. Who knows you might find your new love on your next vacay!

2) Cyber-date!- While I'm not a big fan of online dating (I have my reasons), it doesn't mean you shouldn't give it a whirl. I guess that's why online dating is popular to some because instead of the expense of moving to a new city to find love, you pay for the convenience at your fingertips to go online to date. There is nothing wrong with trying a "safe" form of dating online. It's definitely convenient but the integrity of it can be a little wishy-washy if you are dating someone that you never met or seen. So be careful and be HONEST!

3) Your network determines, your love life too!- Utilize these opportunities to mix and mingle with like-minded individuals professionally and socially. Whether it's an organization event, conference or even a mixer in your city, don't stop yourself short of going to meet the "who's who" of your connections. When you look your best, you feel your best and someone might just get a whiff of your pheromones when your discussing your professional portfolio! Just remember to keep business contacts separate from play dates! Don't be shy.

Hope this helps!

Photo Courtesy of Flickr.com/By Kjersti Andreassen

11.11.11: Happy Veterans Day + Food Freebies

2011-11-11T09:52:00.005-05:00

HAPPY VETERANS DAY!!!! There aren't enough thank yous in the world for all the men and women who have served or who are currently this country in protecting our freedoms. We would never be where we are today if it wasn't for your sacrifice but most of all for your love and bravery! You are appreciated and The Lipstick Memoir wants to show you how much you are!!!

I received an email the other day about FREE Veterans Day and Active Duty meal specials, so please share this with a veteran or active duty member today!

Make sure you check FIRST to see if the location near you is participating!

1) Applebee's-Free meal TODAY! (Active duty also eats free!)

2) Chili's- Free meal TODAY!

3) Golden Corral- Free meal on November 14

4) Krispy Kreme- Free doughnut TODAY!

5) McCormick and Schmick's Seafood Restaurant- Free lunch OR dinner on November 13

6) Outback Steakhouse- Free Bloomin' Onion and Cokes November 7th-TODAY (Active duty also gets this perk!)

7) Subway- Free 6in sub TODAY!

8) Texas Roadhouse- Free meal TODAY! (Active duty eats free too!)

9) T.G.I. Friday's- Buy one, get one free (BOGO deal)- Starting TODAY - November 14

10) Uno's Chicago Grill- Free entree or individual pizza with a purchase of an entree or individual pizza of equal or lesser value (Active duty eats free too!)

P.S. Don't forget to bring your Military ID!!!

Enjoy!!!

Photo Courtesy of Flickr.com/By Hungry Designs "American Flag Cupcakes"

11.1.11

2011-11-01T20:23:00.001-04:00

Make a wish! New month, new opportunities, new money, new adventures and NEW you! Can you believe there are only two months left in the year? Make it count :)

Happy November to you!

oxox, ELLe.

Photo Courtesy of Flickr.com/Jamie973

You are cordially invited to Beyonce's "Party"

2011-10-27T22:04:00.004-04:00

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this song BUT I'm completely going bonkers over the fashion in this video. Let me tell you, Ms. Beyonce looks nothing short from flawless from head-to-toe in her latest single "Party" that is on her album "4." There is just something about the beat of this song that makes you think of old school block parties and the fasssshhhhhiooonnnn *finger snaps* will have you falling out(gasps). It's fresh, it's funky, it's hip, it's Beyonce! Enjoy!

Dear Adult Trick -or- Treaters,

2011-10-26T18:03:00.004-04:00

With Halloween around the corner, it reminded me that every year I seem to gain more gripes about this day. By far the most annoying aspect of Halloween is that some YOUNG ADULTS and a few SEASONED ADULTS believe it's perfectly fine to still go trick or treating and you are DEAD WRONG! Now, this does not include parents of young ones who accompany their kids...I'm talking about the grown adults who still dress in costume and STILL tote an empty bag (or pillowcase) to get free candy. Are you serious? If you don't go find a costume party to participate in...why in the HELL do you believe competing for candy with a 5 year old is okay? It's just simply NOT ACCEPTABLE...in fact your BEHAVIOR IS OUT OF LINE! I think that's why I don't even hand out candy anymore because as cute as the kiddies come, I just can bare seeing an ADULT trick-or-treater grabbing up candy from my bowl. If you want candy so bad, just buy it! Sheesh! Granted the best things in life are free especially if sugar is on the menu but there is a time and a place people...GROW UP. Let the kids have their childhood, your opportunity has been OVER. Thanks!

The Zero Day Project..are you in?

2011-10-23T16:55:00.002-04:00

As some of you may know (and those of you that don't..pay attention thank you hehe!) I have been trying to compile and complete a bucket list. At first, I thought having one bucket list would suffice for my entire lifespan but then I started thinking about it and that's too difficult. Then, I came up with the idea of having "seasonal bucket list" (one for each season out of the year) and again, this was difficult to accomplish (clearly I didn't complete my summer list smh).

So I was extra excited the other night to discover on the 20SB hot topic forum that there was a discussion about "The Zero Day Project." Essentially, it shares similar purposes as the ordinary bucket list concept except it pushes you to complete 100 things in 1001 days. Sounds easy right? One thousand and one days is roughly 2.73 years to complete all 100 things which is pretty doable when you think about it. Now it may sound easy to complete but it also requires that you set realistic and descriptive things to do within that time frame. For example, instead of saying "you want to travel out of the country," you say "I want to travel to Italy." It sounds like an exciting challenge and I think I'm going to try it!

The Zero Day Project even has a section on their website that gives you ideas AND the coolest part is you can see what others have chosen to do as well. You can even see a list of the most popular items people have chosen to do as well. The site is pretty interactive with its users so you can see what others are doing or share experiences through their site but most of all you walk away feeling accomplished when you have completed something.

Wish me luck and I hope this post inspires someone else to try it too!

October is...Breast Cancer Awareness Month

2011-10-19T22:08:00.002-04:00

Today I found out that someone I know through a friend has breast cancer. I'm truly speechless and it hurts my heart to know that many before her and many now are fighting this disease. There is just never enough awareness out there and it's just so important women and men take the time to put their health first while they have the chance because you never know. We always think it could never happen to a friend, loved one or someone close to you but no one is safe so we all have to take the necessary precautious to be helpful in getting the message out there!

Paula Deen's butter flavored lip balm?

2011-10-18T21:49:00.008-04:00

One of my really good friend's shared with me today that Paula Deen also known as "Ms. Food Network Southern Cuisine Queen" is making a profit off her fetish for butter...seriously. This woman has truly out down herself by creating line of lip balms that not only smell and feel good on your lips but apparently its pretty tasty too. I am dying to get my hands on stuff just see for myself if this lip balm lives up to it's slogan, "put some south on your mouth." According to the HuffingtonPost.com, she has more than just a buttery lip-smacking flavor, she's also has "peach cobbler, banana pudding and key lime pie" and of course MORE. Talk about an appetite for your lips? While the product isn't nationwide (yet...because I have a feeling it will be), it can be purchased at Paula Deen's store in Savannah, Georgia (bummer...I don't live there). The good thing is you don't have to feel bad in counting calories when wearing this stuff...it's one product that won't add to your hips, just your lips.

Has anyone tried Paula Deen's lip balms before? Would you try her lip balms? I wonder if males can use her lip balm too?

Picture Courtesy of Flickr.com/ By National Milk Producers Federation

October is...Domestic Violence Awareness

2011-10-18T21:38:00.002-04:00

Ten types of food dishes I'd like to try...GO!

2011-10-07T20:46:00.005-04:00

I'm not familiar with the most popular dishes or traditional dishes for some of the cultural foods I'd like to try so yeah...I just grouped it by geographical location. Here it goes:

1) Ethopian Food

2) Phillipino Food

3) Armenian Food

4) Ghanian Food (I really just want to try different African food in general)

5) Moroccan Food

6) Brazilian Food

7) Australian Food (The Aussies have a special dish right???)

8) Russian Food

9) Korean Food

10) Indonesian Food

October is...

2011-10-07T20:20:00.004-04:00

The month of October marks the awareness of two very important life campaigns: Domestic Violence month (purple ribbon) and Breast Cancer Awareness month (pink ribbon). Each year, men, women, and children are affected by both of these issues and it's important as a people that we remain informed about these topics. I personally know of families very dear to me that have been victims of both, some survived and some did not. In honor of them, I would like to dedicate my blog to help inform others of these topics. There are so many suffering in silence and it's up to us to be pillars of support for those who need it and to reach those who are unaware of the seriousness of these issues. I hope this information impacts a life and I hope other bloggers will feel compelled to join in spreading awareness too. Let's reach one, teach one together...oxox, ELLe.

Photo Courtesy of: girlfriendology.com

Dear AUTUMN...

2011-09-25T16:00:00.006-04:00

(Above) Photo Courtesy of Flickr/ By Cheska Annelliese

Photo Courtesty of Flickr/By Ientu

Photo Courtesy of Flickr/By Rynne.Stephanie

ATTN Shoppers: Mr./Mrs. Right might be in aisle....

2011-09-21T17:09:00.005-04:00

The age old saying goes, "the way to a man's heart is through is stomach" but who knew there is some valid truth to this adage. Ladies and Gents, the next time you hit the grocery store, make sure you look tasteful (pun intended) because your Mr./Mrs. Right might just be standing in aisle three! It's funny because I just finished a book the other day and the scene discussed how this woman ran into the grocery store looking for a last minute date to accompany her to her ex's function.

This scene triggered my thoughts and reminded me of an article I saw awhile back in the newspaper about grocery stores being a popular pick up spot. I guess when you think about it, a great deal of time can be wrapped around grocery shopping (by the way I HATE grocery shopping) so why not make the most of your experience. It may sound a little crazy maybe even a litter absurd to check out the next girl/dude by the frozen foods but it's worth a shot. Of course, location and timing is key in selecting the right grocery store to have a good selection of attractive SINGLE people (leave married people alone!) to mingle with as well.

If you are going to approach someone at the grocery store make sure you keep these rules in mind:

1) Please do NOT follow them, pop up on them or run them down with the shopping cart to get their attention. Your first impression is everything and your don't want to seem like a grocery store stalker or weirdo. Be polite, smile and if they show interest then proceed.

2) It's the grocery store NOT a date so don't give them the 21 questions when you first meet them. Just like you, they are in there for one reason...food! So don't keep them too long from getting off tasks with your third degree otherwise they will plead the fifth and keep rolling.

3) Do NOT (for the love of all things holy and sacred) ask management to make an announcement over the loud speakers to get this person's attention. There is nothing romantic, creative or even remotely cute about announcing "will the woman in the red shirt and tight jeans, please report to customer service to give this man your phone number"- it's embarrassing and you will look desperate and crazy!

4) This brings me to point four... you should NOT (and I repeat SHOULD NOT) wait in the parking lot of the grocery store to meet this person! If you didn't snag their attention inside the store or they blew you off because they weren't interested, then cut your losses (it's not that serious); otherwise, the local authorities will relay the message to you in a nice pair of shiny cuffs! The only name you'll be introduced to is"Miranda Rights."

5) "No" means exactly how it is spelled "No!" So don't take it personal if someone really isn't turned on by your charm near the bananas. When your too pushy, you look like you can't handle rejection and you are far too grown to act like a toddler in the grocery store! Let it go.....

Have you or do you know someone that has met someone in the grocery store? Good luck shopping!

Photo Courtesy of Flickr.com/By ma vie en rouge

Cuffing Season: What YOU don't know...

2011-09-15T19:35:00.004-04:00

Cuffing season, "boo'd up" season, "boyfriend/girlfriend" lock down time, "butt buddies" (literally) whatever you want to call it is just a BIG false advertisement to get people exciting about being with someone. I don't even know why it is called "cuffing season" because it sounds too much like seasonal allergies. Cuffing season is "apparently" the ONLY time of year that guys (mainly guys) and girls are actually open to being with someone because the temperature is changing. Sounds stupid right? Who told people that the weather has ANYTHING to do with dating? But I guess there is some truth that weather and dating go hand-in-hand. Spring/summer months seem to be the "automatic break-up time of year because the weather is warm!" Seriously people, we have got to do better!

While we are progressing to cooler temperatures, it may look more interesting to have someone to cuddle with or just spend time with to move this time along, but remember things aren't always what they seem. This is ALSO the time of year where "indoor activities" (wrap it up please!) look more exciting, so to some it's only right to have that one person (some people have more than one cuff victim..shame) on-call to participate in those activities.

But the part that is really said is that some people really believe in only giving a person a "season" to be involved as an item. It's a shame! People that are really about meeting someone, (especially on a long-term basis) should not be fooled by this season; otherwise, you will end up hurt, miserable and broke (yeah remember this is holiday season too!). Do NOT...I repeat DO NOT be swindled. It's never right to play with some one's emotions nor is it right to waste some one's time if you just aren't that into them! So I recommend, if you are going to partake in "cuffing season," make sure it's very clear that this is just a "seasonal" thing for you! And if you know you are allergic to it or detect it going on, then remove yourself from it immediately! Can't say you didn't get the "Memo" guys...

What are you thoughts about "cuffing season?" What does "cuffing season" mean to you?

TRENDING: Ferocious Feline Frames

2011-09-15T19:15:00.006-04:00

We have all heard the saying "cat got your tongue" but what if the "cat's got your eyes?" Not literally, but in the fashion world today, cat eye glasses are adorning the eyes of many women because of their classic yet edgy shape. Cat Eye glasses or cat eye sunglasses are taking to the faces of fashionistas everywhere-Kourtney Kardashian, reality star of "Keeping Up With the Kardashians" has been spotted rocking these feline frames, even her mother/"Momager" Kris Jenner! While they may be trending item on the fall MUST HAVE list, cat-eye glasses have actually been around since the "olden days." They were popular back in the 1950's and 1960's and now they have resurfaced with a huge excitement. Cat-eye glasses are the perfect accessory to add some personality to your look (especially a vintage pair)!

Style Fact: Actress and style icon, Audrey Hepburn wore cat-eye sunglasses in the movie "Breakfast at Tiffany's" and boy were these glasses fierce *does two finger snaps and a wrist twist* !

Photo Courtesy of Mangos.com, Cat Eye Glass $36

Fall Fragrances: Taylor Swift, Shakira + Heidi Klum

2011-09-14T06:49:00.010-04:00

I was reading the October issue of Cosmopolitan magazine the other day (one of my favorite magazines!) and I stumbled across the sample perfume advertisements for Grammy-award winning artists Taylor Swift, Shakira and super model/Project Runway host, Heidi Klum. It seems like you haven't made it in the entertainment business these days unless you have "bottled up" your personality, talents and appearance in a fragrance. So even if you never meet you favorite celebrity or celebrity crush, you can at least cuddle up to a bottle of their scent to feel a bit of closeness (just don't go crazy with it okay!). Here are my two scents about their fragrances (and NO, I'm not a perfume expert):

Taylor Swift's "Wonderstruck" perfume is AMAZING! By far my favorite out of three I sniffed out of the magazine. It's the first fragrance designed by this country-pop starlet and this tantalizing potion of smell good was actually inspired by one of her songs "Enchanted." It's floral, fruity and fresh. The fragrance will be hitting shelves in October.

Shakira's "S" perfume is nice! For her first fragrance, it's a clean composition of floral accents to round out a very settle but romantic perfume. While she is known for her spicy lyrics and sensual body movements, one whiff of this scent gives of a more "girl next door" vibe. It's simple but still sexy! Her bottle of "S" is out in stores now.

Heidi Klum's "Shine" perfume is elegant! It's more for the mature noses out there. It's rich in warm scents like vanilla and a more "woodsy" feel. While it didn't tickle my nose much, I know that it will be popular amongst other noses out there. It's definitely a great scent accessory for the fall. This is also Klum's first fragrance and it is already being sold now.

Are you ready for Fashion Night Out?

2011-09-07T21:07:00.003-04:00

If you love fashion then it's impossible to sleep without getting excited for FASHION NIGHT OUT (FNO) TOMORROW! It's the one-time of year where all fashion lovers come together to celebrate the fashion industry at various stores. There's shopping, food, shopping, music, shopping, networking and SHOPPING of course! FNO is celebrated all over the world, from Milan to Washington, DC to Los Angeles to to New York. Want to participate? Who knows you might run into Heidi Klum, Kimora Lee Simmons, Tyra Banks or Naomi Campbell in the streets of NYC? Or maybe you'll see designers Yvet Saint Laurent, Roberto Cavalli, Marc Jacobs, Michael Kors, Christian Siriano, Dolce & Gabbana, Heatherette, Michael Knight or DSquared2? Check out FNO for a complete list of events in participating cities!

Did I mention that some places will be having awesome giveaways and discounts for fashion-goers tomorrow? Goodie-goodie gum drops!

Never have I ever...

2011-09-06T20:03:00.003-04:00

Never have I ever been to a spa! I really want to go to one someday (it's actually on my summer bucket list). The only thing that creeps me out about a spa is it's cleanliness! I researched a couple of places and it's interesting how some of the more expensive places ended up with bad reviews. I think I read somewhere that one place had a rodent problem (yeah hold the rat dropping from my mud treatment thanks)! Have you guys been to a spa before? How was your experience?

Photo Courtesy of onlinegardener.com

Hello September...

2011-08-31T23:10:00.006-04:00

Where did the time go? This whole summer has been a blur for me mostly because I have been super busy. I've barely blogged and I haven't completed my summer bucket list (I'm going to try my best though). The common misconception about the first day of September is that people automatically assume it's fall and it isn't. Fall doesn't actually being until September 21st...so don't rush away the sunshine to early people sheesh!

Autumn is actually my favorite season....it represents change. I enjoy the cooler temperatures and I'm excited to break out my leather jacket and suede boots. I enjoy watching the leaves change day to day, it's like watching a live painting take place before your eyes. I enjoy smelling firewood burning in chimneys and "cozying" up to a hot cup of apple cider. Apple pies and spice cake bake in the background, warming the whole house up with a cinnamon spice scent. Ahhhhh....fall! Aren't you excited yet? I especially love fall rainy days (not so great for my hair though) but I love to see the colorful leaves float by in huge puddles. By far, I love fall the most because of the physical changes of the season and it some aspects it's therapeutic for me to0 because I change. I've always been a person who has lived my life based on seasons (it's spiritual really) and I enjoy every minute of it. I wonder what is in store for me this fall!

P.S. Isn't this picture cool? I love colorful leaves :)

Picture Courtesty of Flick.com/fdean55

Memo To: STALKERS!!!

2011-08-31T22:29:00.006-04:00

I really and I mean REALLY can't stand dudes who are sooo annoying (and guys I'm sure you can relate too with crazy girls)! I will never understand in my twenty-something years of living why people think that being OVERLY persistent will get them cool points in getting a girl/guy to notice them. I can't speak for everyone (because some people actually like someone to constantly talk to them 24/7) but I know I can't STAND IT especially when I have made it known to you that I'm NOT INTERESTED. I don't know what's more disrespectful: you not listening or paying attention to signs that I'm not interested OR you still contacting me ALL DAY, ALL NIGHT 24/7...it's just weird and crazy! If you act like this then you will not hear another peep for me...believe that! It's really hard for me to hold my tongue but I'm trying this new thing called "trying to be a better person" but the level of irate is hard to control...so sometime I have to be extreme in making my point known.

Soooo...yesterday I blocked my first number! I never had to do this before because usually "he" would just get it that I'm not interested but this one just didn't even have a Blue's Clue to even notice! Shame! This is why I don't give out my number because I usually end up with a crazy every now and just my luck it happened...again! I was straight up with this dude and then he became crazy. Texting all the time, calling, talking to my vmail etc...it just seemed like he was obsessed and that's not okay! Take the the hint...I'm just not that into you and it's okay...it's not the end of the world if one person isn't interested in you, there are tons of other possibilities...so go that way. Thanks!

P.S. In case you DON'T know if you are showing stalker tendencies, let me share some symptoms:

1) This person has already expressed a disinterest in you or dating you BUT you still bring it up AND still try to make it happen. Dead wrong!

2) You call, text, tweet, email or leave vmails at all hours of the day! Texts are usually short because you expect them to contact you back quickly (i.e."Hey," "What's up," "Good morning"). You may do a phone call and a text or tweet then a text and call...multiple times...yeah crazy!

3) You probably think about this person all the time (like fantasizing/daydreaming...ewww) AND so it encourages you to contact them (#2 above). You might even look at their Facebook, Myspace or even Twitter avi all day just so you can look at them all day! *barf*

4) You believe in your mind that you are being "persistence" and you don't see that you are actually being "obsessed." If your friends are encouraging this then they may not be your friends...they actually might be stalkers too! Birds of a feather...shame!

5) You lose sleep or loss of time which effects your overall productivity of YOUR day but it doesn't bother you because you feel like it's something you HAVE to do and you believe in your mind that the person would actually like to HEAR from you. This is an automatic fail to win anyone over!

EARTHQUAKE IN VIRGINIA? My experience...

2011-08-23T17:03:00.004-04:00

As a fellow Virginia native, I had to blog about my first earthquake experience EVER! This has to be the most bizarre, scary moment (so far) in my life. Here is my day play-by-play:

Time: I think it was around 1:20 or something (don't know for sure)

Place: I'm kind of embarrassed to reveal this but....I was in the bathroom at work (scary stuff)

Reaction: At first I thought it was my building at work (we've had problems with our HVAC on the roof so shaking was normal) but then I realized that it had to be something else. When they yelled "Everybody evacuate!" over the paging system, I knew it had to be an earthquake or something.

First thing I grabbed: My cell phone

How did I know it was an Earthquake: Thank God for social networks! Twitter saved the day in updating me on what was going on. I first saw a couple of tweets from friends who said they felt the shake too then I read a tweet from "AP Press" that declared it was a 5.8 earthquake that hit the area (the reports have changed, it to a 5.9 earthquake).

How did you contact friends and family: My phone wasn't sending or receiving texts nor calls all I could do was tweet for the first two hours. When I got home, I was able to text (my phone goes in and out like it is now) and eventually my Twitter app on my phone stopped working.

First person who called me: My dearest friend/my darling/my love Candice :) (she was the only one that had luck in getting thru)

First person to text me: My cousin/womb to the tomb/soul twin Amber :)

First person I tweeted: My big brother Renauld! (had to make sure he was ok since I couldn't text or call my parents :( )

First thing (s) I noticed in my room that fell/damaged during Earthquake: My college degree fell and my board games fell of my closet shelf

What have I done to get my mind off the earthquake: Watched the news, read the Bible/prayed, and BLOGGED!

Update!!!! Summer bucket list

2011-08-20T14:58:00.004-04:00

I never thought it would be this hard to complete a summer bucket list but it's been tough. Mainly because I have been super busy with other things going in my life but it doesn't mean I'm still not going to try and complete MOST or ALL of it before the summer's over. I technically have until September 21st to make it happen. In the mean time, here is what I have done so far....

1) Hit the beach (VA beach and South Beach done! I still want one more.)

2) Go to Kings Dominion/Six Flags

3) Go to the zoo

4) Go to MIA!!!! (Done)

5) Go on a boat ride (Done)

6) Try new cultural food (Filipino food/Ethiopian food/Moroccan food/[insert other cultural food here])

7) Read at least THREE books (One down, two more to go)

8) Go to a free outdoor concert (Done but I'm going to more)

9) Plan an international vacation for next summer (I have an exciting idea I’m researching now!)

10) Go to at least TWO museums

11) Start my family genealogy project

12) Sign up to take the GRE (I haven't scheduled yet but I have started studying!!!)

13) Research graduate programs AND narrow down to 5 schools! (I have a good four in mind but this is subject to change)

14) Go on a bike ride

15) Learn how to cook a cultural dish from scratch (I got a recipe from a friend to make curry chicken, just haven't made it yet!)

16) Visit Almish Country!!!!! (<---I really want to complete this one)

17) Get my palm/tarot read

18) Go to a spa (I've researched it but the good ones cost alot and the cheap ones...well the reviews say "you get what you pay for" :(

19) Bake a cake from scratch

20) A new piercing (hmm!)

21) Make chicken noodle from scratch

22) Get a Henna tattoo

23) Go on a paddle boat ride

24) Take a pole dancing or salsa class

25) Try a some bizarre food (like what the Andrew Zimmerman eats on the Travel Channel...eek!)

26) Go to a wine tasting

27) Try a speed dating activity

28) Find a guest blogger!

29) Find a pen pal or blogger pen pal :)

30) Go to a dinner theatre

31) Write a fall/winter bucket list (not even started but something tells me some of these things I don’t finish will be on it)

32) Try a gel manicure (I would like to try it but I'd rather save my money!)

33) Attend a baseball game (my Godsister and I are suppose to hit a game before the season is out)

34) Go to a batting cage

35) Go putt putt golfing

In my thoughts....

2011-08-20T14:35:00.003-04:00

I can't believe the month of August is almost over and I have totally neglected my blog :( Sorry I haven't blogged in awhile but I feel like my mind has been in the clouds lately. I am proud to report that it hasn't been anything negative going in my life! If anything, I have been using this month to do a lot of soul searching and really just revising my life plan. I'm mean we don't live this life forever and sometimes the plan we have in motion needs to be revised and that's where I have been. I realized there is so much I want to do in my life mainly travel the world and help people while doing it but I haven't quite figured out HOW to do it and what to do first.

I really want to return to grad school but I'm also anxious to move forward in my career...is it really possible to do both? I see programs all the time that offer part-time programs or distant-learning but could I really do both? Hmmmm now that's a challenge. I don't know why I thought life as a 20-something would seem so glamorous back in the day because it has most certainly been a roller coaster ride! It's also been a great learning experience as well...I've seen friendships go and come and I feel myself growing into a better woman each day. Going forward isn't going to be easy but I'm up for the challenge. They say that "real change begins with you" and "if you want to see something done, YOU have to do it yourself." So with these words in mind, I'm just going to take a leap a faith! I may not always land on my toes but at least I'm still moving right?

My favorite animal reminds me of...

2011-08-07T14:21:00.004-04:00

a fashionable haute couture model! I love PEACOCKS!!! Doesn't the feathers remind you of a a stylish train you would see on the catwalks of Milan or Paris!

Fun Fact: Peacocks are actually males!

TREND Alert: Fall 2011 Fashion Colors

2011-07-27T17:48:00.004-04:00

Photo Courtesy of Pantone.com

PSA: MAN drought/loser flood coming to a city near you

2011-07-26T21:01:00.007-04:00

I recently was on one of my blogger networks when I ran across a very interesting topic..."Man Drought or Loser Flood" (check out Dawn Dash's blog...her topic inspired me to give my two cents on this!). It appears women are at a state of emergency when it comes to dating especially when it comes to the selection in men. Now before any male reads this blog post further...I am not feminist nor a man "hater" or Buffy the man slayer (lol), I just have bold opinions and I think the topic holds great relevance to discuss because it is a common issue amongst female friends of mine sooo let's go! First and foremost, it is no secret that the dating pool is pretty much trash. Let's be real people! I hear it all the time 'there is nothing out there" or 'it's hard to find a good person to date or take seriously" so it all just makes sense that there is something wrong. It's actually a known fact that many major cities like DC and Atlanta (I've lived in both places) suffer from a HUGE man drought and in some cases a "loser" flood but why?

Where are all the men? Once you remove the married ones, committed relationship people, "the down lows," LGBT's, incarcerated, bachelors for life etc. you are left with a very small pool of opportunities. So is quantity the major problem (a.k.a. man drought) or is is the quality (a.k.a loser flood) the issue? I honestly think it is a balance of both. I believe there is someone for everyone in this world but finding that person (or better yet that person finding you) is really like trying to find a needle in a hay stack. Additionally, there are many people who have decided to "settle" with the person they have (or their situation) instead of really trying to make it right with the RIGHT person. It most certainly has made it difficult for single girls like me to take anyone seriously (I have been on one too many HELL DATES...yikes) so then you just sort of give up. So fellas, where are you? What are your thoughts about this man drought/loser flood? I know some of you fellas feel the same way about finding a good woman these days...I know that is hard too. Ladies, are you experiencing a man drought/loser drought where you are? How are you trying to overcome it? Guess it's not raining men after all *shrugs*

Do your keys have PERSONALITY?

2011-07-17T20:21:00.009-04:00

Have you ever noticed what key chains you have attached to your keys? Did you ever think your keys could actually describe the type of person you are...well...I believe they do say a little something a person. It may sound outlandish but if you are going on your first date with someone, their keys could spark a conversation. You know we have all been there before...when you have that awkward silence that happens when it seems you (or the other person) have run out of things to talk about. So check out their keys for clues on their personality. So take here is my key chain decoder of what I think a key chain can tell you about a person:

1) Key chains from different cities/countries: It says this person likes to traveler, outgoing, adventurous.

2) Miniature Hand Sanitizer: It says this person believes in cleanliness, germ-0-phobic, or neat freak (they probably have good hygiene habits which is a plus).

3) Key chains with a bottle cap remover: It says this person likes to have a good time. They are probably enjoy being sociable and going out on the town.

4) Keys with a lanyard that list a school name, Greek organization etc.: It says that this person proud of being affiliated with these groups. It also shows this person is loyal, dedicated and ambitious in achieving their goals in life.

5) Flashlight: It says this person is handy. You never know when you need a flashlight. Like a flashlight, they probably don't like to be in the dark about things in their personal life so always best to shine the light of truth when dealing with this person.

6) Miniature grocery cards, gas cards, credit card: This person doesn't mind spending money especially if the they can get discounts for store membership. Hopefully this person knows how to manage their money instead of blowing it frivolously.

7) Gym membership: This person is health conscious and takes pride in their physical appearance. With fitness, it requires great discipline and focus which are important traits to have in everyday life.

8) Pictures of friends/family member(s): This person has a big heart for important people in their life. They have a loving spirit and they care a lot about their support system.

9) Dirty/Obscene keychains: This person has a sense of humor. While most of these key chains aren't meant to be taken literally, eventually these key chains get old in toting around. This person could lack maturity at times which can be quite annoying when trying to have serious conversations.

What key chain on your keys best describes you?

UPDATE: Summer Bucket List

2011-07-13T22:34:00.003-04:00

1) Hit the beach-Went to VA Beach!
4) Go to MIA!!!!-Going next week!
5) Go on a boat ride-DONE
8) Go to a free outdoor concert-Done but I'm going to more *Bonus* I saw Melonie Fiona live an in-door concert :)
12) Sign up to take the GRE- I purchased the book so far does that count?
13) Research graduate programs AND narrow down to 5 schools!- in the works

To see my full summer bucket list, look under my "Mirror of Truth" label. Oh and let me add that I have 35 things on this list and I only have done like 6 of these things (well #12 isn't quite fulfilled eek!)...yeah I need to step it up! Help!

Kardashian KOLLECTION is almost here!

2011-07-13T21:59:00.005-04:00

If you don't know, well let me be the first to say that the Kardashian Sisters are back at it again in taking over the fashion industry. Kourtney, Kim and Khloe Kardashian have been working tirelessly (I'm sure) in building on to their Kardashian empire (I wonder what's next after this!). In the past, they linked up with Bebe to have a miniature "kollection" but now they are taking Sears by storm. These kourageous fashionistas are preparing for their big launch in August and they have quite a big line coming out. From lingerie to shoes, handbags to clothes, these dolls will have you covered from head-to-toe in Kardashian flawlessness! The line plans to be "affordable for all ages" (according to Khloe K. blog) and with these hard times ahead in the economy, no one said your wardrobe has to sacrifice too! Frugal fashion has always been IN and if you want to know what it looks like sign up today to receive the first email about the Kardashian Kollection hitting stores near you!

Photo Courtesy Sears.com

Children on LEASHES??? WTF!!!

2011-07-05T19:49:00.003-04:00

I will never ever EVER ever understand why adults think it is perfectly acceptable to place their young children on leashes! Let me first just say I not a parent so I probably shouldn't even be bringing this topic up but...it's my blog so I say what I want! (:p) Anyway, I think putting your child on a leash is one of the most demeaning things you could place on your child in public. Why people why? Your child is not an animal, your child is not a toy-your child is a HUMAN and deserves to be treated as such in public.

It baffles me that someone in their right mind really thought the creation of a human leash would be okay to strap around their child. From what I observed (recently) it looks like people use these leashes to keep their child close (like a person does with a dog) but PARENTS, if you can't control you child without a leash then I question your parenting. Seriously! I said it! Why aren't you able to keep up with your child in public? Why do you feel like you can only control them in public with a leash? Did holding your child's hand go out of style? I just don't get it *scratches head.* You (the adult) look like an idiot or like you don't have control over your child, so QUIT IT! The warmer it gets outside, it seems like I see more children on leashes and it is so not cool. You know when you put your kids on leashes, it just confuses them to act like an animal in public. I'm just saying...lay off with the leashes and maybe your child will behavior better in public. THE END.

THROWBACK Music: Angel Perez "Angel"

2011-07-05T19:47:00.003-04:00

This song is a classic! Enjoy!

Have you ever heard of FRIED KOOL-AID?

2011-06-27T18:07:00.004-04:00

Believe it or not? There is such thing as fried cherry flavored Kool-Aid and you can find it at the San Diego County Fair! It was one of the MOST bizarre things I read in the newspaper the other day so me being the blogger I am, I had to learn more about this Kool-Aid. The creation all started from a guy named Charlie Boghosian, owner of "Chicken Charlie's" who has clearly an obsession with frying just about anything edible. I checked out his website (which is pretty darn cool) to read the menu of all the things he deep fries and it sounds like a tasty adventure. He fries Snickers bars, Girl Scout cookies, Klondike bars (seriously! the man is a fried genius), OREOS, Twinkies and a whole lot more. So if you in the California area (San Diego readers especially), stop by his truck and experience the fun! He will be at the San Diego Country fair till July 4!!! I really wish I lived in California just to try his fried concoctions, it would definitely be a fun fun fun experience:)

Photo Courtesy of Chicken Charlies, "Fried Kool-Aid"

Ameriie ties the KNOT wiith her long-time beau!!!

2011-06-27T17:46:00.005-04:00

This sultry R&B songbird has finally said "I DO" to her long-time beau Lenny Nicholson, former record executive for Columbia. According to several sources, this wedding sounds like it was absolutely delectable. The twosome exchanged vows in a private ceremony on the lovely island of Anguilla (which is so Ameriie's style, she has always had a reserved spirit). Besides Ameriie's gorgeous pair of legs, this petite beauty is also known for her fashion taste. According to People magazine, she wore a darling Monique Lhuillier gown with "drama drama" cathedral-style train (I wonder if it's close to Princess Di's train whooo). On her feet, she adorned them in baby blue Yves Saint Laurent sandals. Her hair was even dripping with diamonds and pearls (literally!)...magnificent. Her "new new" hubby wore a Hugo Boss suit (sharp!). I know they were a stunning pair at the alter now I just hope that they releases pictures!! I really wish them the best of luck and lots of love!!! Congrats!!!! *cheers*

KILLIN ME SOFTLY:Turtlenecks in the summertime

2011-06-22T22:35:00.006-04:00

I've accepted many moons ago, well a few minutes ago that I really need to stop getting bent out of shape over things that I don't have ANY control over. I can let go of many things (I really can) but what I can't let go is seeing people walk around in a turtlenecks in 90 degrees weather?!? WTF? I'm really just not understanding what I have seen on the streets and so many times I want to trick my mind into believe it's all a lie but it's truth. People, people, people smh...it really disturbs my spirit when I see crazy things like this because I'm just not sure if they got the "memo" about it being hot outside. AND what really kills me is when they act like they are as cool as a fan in this top when we all know what lies beneath is a sweaty hot mess ewww!

Why are you trying to cook yourself in this heat? Like are you trying to catch a heat stroke? I just don't understand!!! I really wish I had photos to show you guys but I usually see these offenses while I'm driving and I'm never ready to take a pic smh (and it's against the law to be on the phone when driving). I've seen it all...hoodies in 100 degree heat yesterday I saw a girl walking in a flannel pajama set across the street in 85 degree weather. Make it stop!!! Please!!! The fact that I'm even blogging about this topic is giving me a fever sheesh...I'm going to stop now *sips on a glass of lemonade*

P.S. It's only the SECOND day of summer and I saw these offenses BEFORE the official day of summer. What is going on in the world today? Help!

Question:What is changing in your life right now?

2011-06-21T20:05:00.003-04:00

The thing(s) that are changing in my life (besides the seasons) right now is my friends. As I get older, I have noticed more and more the importance about the quality of friends then the quantity. Many times people have these two items misconstrued and believe that the more friends they have determines their acceptance, their popularity and in some cases defines the person (dead wrong). Out of my 20-something years of life, I realize that it's okay if some friendships don't work out because some people only last for a season, others only last for a reason and only a couple last a lifetime. Yeah, I know it sounds a little cliche' but anybody that REALLY knows me knows that I have always been a very guarded person and I struggle with letting people in. It's nothing personal but its just a defense mechanism that has always worked for me *shrugs.* I know who my TRUE friends and I thank my lucky stars everyday for their presences because they mean a lot to me. Anyhoo, I have really embraced this change in my life (even thought it was difficult to accept it) but I know it's a WIN-WIN situation in the end. The best is yet to come for my circle and I...

Accessories Candy: nOir Jewelry

2011-06-21T19:12:00.014-04:00

"Deco Cubism Bugle Bead" by nOir Jewelry $300.00

Today is an exciting for two reasons...it's the first day of summer yay!!! *raises the roof* AND I just found the MOST delicious accessories that I have ever laid on my eyes on...nOir Jewelry that is! I can't believe I never knew of these darling pieces but they are no secret to the fashion world nor to the arms, ears, wrists, fingers and necks of many celebs out there. You probably have seen these pieces on Beyonce, Lady Gaga, Mary J. Blige, Katy Perry, Fergie, Gwen Stefani and many others! I highlighted along of rings (because I am a ring fanatic) and necklaces too but make sure you visit their website for their complete collections! Anyhoo, if you don't know, now you do and I hope you enjoy my 300th post like I do!!! Now if only I can get my hands on some of this stuff, I would be one happy camper....xo!

(Above) "Penny the Peacock" by nOir Jewelry $150

(Above) Heidi the Spider by nOir Jewlry $70
"Kickapoo Necklace" by nOir Jewelry $195

"Fold Over" by nOir Jewlry $120

"The Candy Darling" by nOir Jewelry $400.00
"Bugle Knot" by nOir Jewelry $300

"Bette the Butterfly" by nOir Jewelry $165

"Brooklyn Bridge" by nOir Jewelry $250

Photos Courtesy of nOir Jewelry

Nail ART: Got "Shattered?"

2011-06-13T19:09:00.005-04:00

OPI (the nail polish gurus!) has out done themselves this time! I love nail art and the "Shattered" effect is taking mani's to a whole new level. One my friend actually was telling me about "Shattered" nail polish but who knew it was catching on like the latest trend on Twitter! Unfortunately, I am not an owner...yet but I am looking forward to jazzing up my nails this summer with this stuff!

Check out this tutorial below to learn how you can create the "Shattered" look too:

NEW NEW VIDEO: Late Nights, Early Mornings

2011-06-13T18:41:00.002-04:00

Marsha Ambrosius has done it again! This sultry artist has out done herself creatively in delivering power socially-conscious messages through her music. If you haven't seen her "Far Away" video, scroll down on my wall to watch that one as well. She is teaching you guys, so listen up and pay CLOSE attention! xoxo! Don't forget to pick up her first solo album, 'Late Nights & Early Mornings"...it's amazing!

CHEATERS Report: Are you cyber-sexting?

2011-06-10T14:07:00.004-04:00

It all started with a text or maybe it was an email, nope, it started with a chat room...the point is...it started with some type of TEXT! I read an interesting article the other day about "cyber-sexting" which basically is defined as using some sort of online (even on your phone!) communication to exchange intimate or sexual thoughts with someone. The article (which I can't remember right now but Google it you'll find info on this topic) started to discuss how cyber-sexting is tearing relationships apart or is it? You see people that were in committed relationships assumed their partner was being faithful to them until they found an text, email, chat session etc. with someone online. It's like their significant other started an entire online intimate/sexual relationship with someone they didn't even know but it was solely online, no PHYSICAL contact.

Apparently, this is an ongoing problem in the dating world because some people find cyber-sexting cheating (even thought there was NO PHYSICAL contact). I know if I found out my significant other cyber-sexting, I would consider him a CLASS 1 CHEATER (that's it!). Even thought there wasn't any physical contact, one can never be too sure that a cyber-relationship would EVER end and honestly it just boils down to trust. Why would you want to talk to a random stranger all the time online? Like are you bored with your relationship? Do you need 24-7 attention like a child? I'm just saying! So what are your thoughts? I know there is someone out there doesn't agree with this...I want to here your thoughts!

Haute VIDEO: Marsha Ambrosius "Far Away"

2011-06-10T13:33:00.003-04:00

I just saw Marsha Ambrosius video, "Far Away" for the first time today and it definitely wasn't what I expected! It was more than a "music video," it was a message to be learned from this video. I just had to share this on my blog because I'm always looking for opportunitites to help move important messages along. If you have not picked up her new album, "Late Nights, Early Mornings" you are missing out on some beautiful music (I've loved her since "Floetry" days!). I hope this video touches your heart as it has touched mine. Enjoy! xo!

Part II: Summer Bucket List

2011-06-06T19:57:00.003-04:00

17) Get my palm/tarot read

18) Go to a spa

19) Bake a cake from scratch

20) A new piercing (hmm!)

21) Make chicken noodle from scratch

22) Get a Henna tattoo

23) Go on a paddle boat ride

24) Take a pole dancing or salsa class

25) Try a some bizarre food (like what the Andrew Zimmerman eats on the Travel Channel...eek!)

26) Go to a wine tasting

27) Try a speed dating activity

28) Find a guest blogger!

29) Find a pen pal or blogger pen pal :)

30) Go to a dinner theatre

31) Write a fall/winter bucket list

32) Try a gel manicure

33) Attend a baseball game

34) Go to a batting cage

35) Go putt putt golfing

"Simpson Sisters" teaming up in fashion???

2011-06-02T19:38:00.005-04:00

According to the Ministry of Gossip (via LATimes.com), Jessica Simpson and Ashlee Simpson maybe pulling together their creative juices to launch something fab for teen girls-a clothing collection! That's right! Ever since Jessica Simpson hit the shoe fashion scene (love her shoes...I own several!), she has high heeled her way to well respected brand and her company happens to be on the brink of being worth $1 billion dollars! So who says Oprah is the only one with the golden touch these days? And Jessica is not stopping at shoes, she and her sister plan on taking over clothes as well! I am rather interested to see how Jessica and Ashlee pull this collection off. I can definitely see Jessica designing the more "girl next-door" clothes and Ashlee designing more of an "edgy tom boy chic" clothes but it's a collection so that means it has to make sense together. This could be a bit tricky but their sisters so I know they will make it work! Good luck gals!

Photo Courtesy fashionindie.com

Dear June...

2011-06-02T18:58:00.005-04:00

I don't know about you but is anybody the least bit shocked that we are already half-way through the year? I mean mannnnnn...where did time go? The crazy thing is it feels like we were just getting started with 2011 and then we had some random interruption that the world was suppose to end on MAY21st which was a mah-jor fail SMDH! Anyhoo, through all that hoopla, we still survived and what do you have to show for it? Seriously, when you look back on your six months of 2011 what have you accomplished? Is there anything that is still pending? What else do you have left to do to finish this year strong? I am proud to say within the last six months I finally FOUND MYSELF!!! I know what I want to do and I know what I need to do to get there. It's going to be bumpy road ahead, tons of sacrifices, some tears, full of laughter but in the end I will get there. There is no time for dragging feet here! Just be glad you made it this far (that's an accomplishment) and it's not too late to get your act together for the next half. Don't delay, start today! In the next six months, I most certainly don't want to be where I am today (and I know you don't either), I want to be further along, moving strong but most of all living happily ever after in my 20something life. Cheers!

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Do you believe in love at first sight?

2011-05-29T17:44:00.007-04:00

*Scratches head* It's a difficult question to anwer but it is something to think about these days *Kanye shrugs.* For me, I'm going to say "no" because I believe that in order to truly love a person, you have to know them first and that takes time. When I think about this question, I don't know ANYONE that has actually told me they "believe in love at first sight" nor have experienced "love at first sight" themselves. Plainly put...there are too many weirdos lurking around here to even know who is actually being serious about love and who is actually just being "crazy in love" (and I'm not talking Beyonce...I'm talking psychos)!
As a member of the the 20-something nation, most of us really don't know even know what the hell we want in life, let alone when it comes to love. We barely even know what we want to be when we grow up so how can it be possible to believe that love at first sight even exist? The thought of it is more ficticious then fact! I DO belive there is "lust at first sight" or "jump your bones" at first sight (haha...I'm just being honest!). Is there anyone out there in the world that believes in love at first sight? Like seriously...I mean you literally look at the person and just know in every fiber of your being that this is the person you are suppose to love?

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Top 10 Most Bizarre Fashion

2011-05-27T17:20:00.005-04:00

After finding these "fishy flops" I decided to seek out more bizarre fashion items out there. Of course, I found something on YouTube so I just had to share. By far, the #1 bizarre fashion in this clip had me laughing so hard. The interesting thing about this video is that I noticed some of these "bizarre" fashion styles would actually be embraced as "eco" fashion now (this video looks ancient like it was made in the 90's or something lol). Anyhoo, enjoy!

YouTube Clip Courtesy of alltime10s

RR:It's Easy Just Flush PEOPLE!!!!

2011-05-26T20:28:00.005-04:00

I don't know what is worse...people not washing their hands after using the bathroom OR not flushing afterwards??? To me, they are both equally a nuisance and GROSS and when I see violators in PUBLIC who don't complete these tasks...I want to hurl on them (betcha you'll want to be clean now huh?). I am all for water conservation but come one people, it's the bathroom. Flushing the toilet after a #2 is saving lives! Seriously! When you don't flush, you are allowing contamination to fester (ewwww) and let's not forget odor (pewww!). I know we have all seen and experienced this abuse (and I'm sure some violators will be reading this post...so get it together! Thanks, Management) in a restroom at a public place and I'm convinced that some people just want to DIE from a disease or infection. It really peeves me when I see that someone has dropped off their "kids at the pool" and thinks it is perfectly acceptable to abandon the toilet....WRONG!!! You are gross and you should be banned from doing #2's in public. Ugggghhh!!

Picture Courtesy of watercommunity

TREND ALERT: Are you a NUDIST?

2011-05-26T19:27:00.006-04:00

Before you mind goes straying in the gutter, when I say "nudist" in this instance...I'm talking fashion. The colors nude, taupe, beige, neutral, tan...get the point yet? These natural hues have every girl going nude these days (down boys!). Believe me, it took me months to find the perfect pair of nude pumps and now that I got my paws on a pair, I don't ever want to let them go! A nude pump is must have because it's a basic color that could blend with just about any color palate and any design. It can be the perfect accent a rosy blush colors or even a mellow touch to more vibrant raspberry colors. There is not denying this shoe or color...so without further adieu say hello to my baby....

Ain't she purrty?
Shoes by Kelsi Dagger Price: $89.99

My Summer Bucket List...

2011-05-23T18:50:00.008-04:00

So summertime is right around the corner and that means a bucket list is necessary! I never actually sat down and created one for just the summer but hey it's a first time for everything. While this isn't a complete list of my intentions, it's a start and I am going to try my best to complete it.

So here it is....

1) Hit the beach (as much as possible)

2) Go to Kings Dominion/Six Flags

3) Go to the zoo

4) Go to MIA!!!! (in the works!)

5) Go on a boat ride (Done)

6) Try new cultural food (Filipino food/Ethiopian food/Moroccan food/[insert other cultural food here])

7) Read at least THREE books

8) Go to a free outdoor concert (Done but I'm going to more)

9) Plan an international vacation for next summer

10) Go to at least TWO museums

11) Start my family genealogy project

12) Sign up to take the GRE

13) Research graduate programs AND narrow down to 5 schools!

14) Go on a bike ride

15) Learn how to cook a cultural dish from scratch

16) Visit Almish Country!!!!!

Whose on bended knee anyway?

2011-05-19T20:18:00.005-04:00

Quick!...Can a girl propose to guy? I mean seriously, is it deemed an "official" proposal if a girl gets on bended knee first before her beau even attempts? It seems like these days girls (or women rather) aren't waiting any more on the man to make a serious commitment move and I think it's pretty ballsy but I respect it. S/N: Check out my dearest friend Mel's blog "The Lover's Express" to read about "I want a man that..."

Okay back to the blog now lol..I'm not sure what is going on in the love circuit today but I feel like the dynamics of a relationship are definitely changing. Women these days are not as submissive as they use to be..in fact, more woman are independent, strong, outspoken and point blank tough! They aren't taking any mess and now they are also willing to take control (if they need to). So what's up with that guys?

It's like men and women have traded places in a sense. When it comes to marriage, women aren't afraid of committing but for some reasons guys are still allergic to the words "I do." In case you guys and dolls didn't know the DATING POOL IS SHALLOW (it's like a love drought out here). I REPEAT...THE DATING POOL IS SHALLOW MEN!! So why are you afraid? There ain't much out there so if you have someone special don't take them for granted because they might just find a better guy that will get down on bended knee (or they might just do it their selves).

WANTED: Chivalry...Dead or Alive?

2011-05-17T19:28:00.003-04:00

Every girl wants it but not everybody finds it! I think chivalry is one of the most talked about subject amongst women and it seems there are many impersonators out there and it's rare if it is true. Chivalry is it dead or alive?...because it's obvious no one seems to know its whereabouts these days. I have witnessed even experienced for myself knock-off chivalry and it just doesn't cut it like the real thing. You know the feeling where he opens every door, pulls out every one of your seats, knows when to hold you close to cuddle and then leave you alone when it's just "one of those days." Chivalry is simple...show love!!! It's the little things in life that guys do for their lady that means the most to us girls.

It's not always a gift, money, shopping (well...lol) etc. that will buy you cool points, it's about knowing that you care and are attentive of our needs that makes us feel we are special. Dudes, I'm not saying you have to love her (but if you do that's awesome) but at least let her know you appreciate her, respect her and care for her through your actions. There are too many broken hearts out here and it's about time that we revive some love around here. And guys! I know it is hard these days to find a true woman who isn't just after you for what you have or what you can do. I know deep down inside some of you wish you were more appreciated as well so why don't we all just get along. So what do you think? Is Chivalry dead or alive? Why?

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H&M Spring/Summer 2011 Trend Report

2011-05-15T14:37:00.003-04:00

For the fashionably concious....

YouTube clip courtesy of H&M

How Old Would You Be If You Didn't Know Your Age?

2011-05-09T22:40:00.005-04:00

This question is almost too easy...well actually...it easy! I would be 21 if I didn't know my age! I was so excited to turn 21 and it's the perfect legal age to be able to do anything you want (except rent a car but who needs that for real?)! What age would you pick and why?

Picture Courtesy of v7web.com

Let BEY Show You How to Move...

2011-05-05T20:03:00.008-04:00

The queen "Bey" herself (that is Beyonce) has decided to come out of hiding and be apart of a major MOVEment. First Lady Michelle Obama (a.k.a. Michelle O) has teamed up with Bey to combat childhood obesity through dance for Michelle O's Let's Move organization.
Dance is an alternative way for kids to make working out fun but you don't have to be just a kid to do this routine! You know summer is around the corner so what better way to get fit with Bey herself. So get ready, get set, get moving!

If I Were Queen...

2011-04-27T18:41:00.005-04:00

If I were Queen, I would....

1) LOWER THE FREAKING GAS PRICES to $ .99 cent a gallon

2) Require that EVERY business incorporate more community service projects

3) Raggedy weaves, white shoes (unless it's work related/ceremonial purposes and maybe if they are fly but I will be the judge), cornrows, idots, and saggy pants or other thing that pisses me off would all be AGAINST the law!

4) Mandate that EVERYONE takes steps to become eco-friendly AND I would have a team of "Planeteers" (Shout out to Captain Planet) who would investigate people who broke this law

5) NO MORE FEES FOR LUGGAGE ON PLANES!!!

6) Company's will mirror their employee holiday schedule off of universities/colleges (meaning extended Christmas break for like a month!)

7) Anyone who wishes to attend college can go for FREE but they must keep a good GPA (if you start messing around then you have to pay tuition...sorry!)

8) School lunches for K-college would actually be GOOD FOR YOU!!!

9) Health care would be FREE for everyone!!!

10) All poverty, famine, wars, genocides (anything dealing with physical, mental and emotional abuse of a human) would end and anyone who tries to break this law, it will be off with you head (well I can't imagine killing anyone by my hand but you will be punished)

*Bonus: Parking meters would be destroyed!!

What would you do if you were king/queen?

P.S. Don't forget to follow me on Twitter @thelipstickmemo

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Something BLUE: Royal Sweet Tooth Is Served!

2011-04-26T19:14:00.004-04:00

Who doesn't love Ring Pops? They were a favorite sugary treat from me especially for many other girls around the world in our childhood days. It was the only large "rock" that we could all afford on our own (no bended knee or significant other required for purchase) and we would all gloat about who had better taste (or in this best taste in a flavored ring). As many of you know, it's ROYAL WEDDING COUNTDOWN WEEK for Prince William and Kate Middleton over there "across the pond" (London that is!) and The Lipstick Memoir is celebrating this grand occasion too! It's not everyday you get to see a real "royal" wedding you know!

To kick off the week, I ran into something rather sweet... The Royal Ring Pop which of course was designed to honor the wedding ceremonies of the week. What do you think?

Bazooka Joe Candy Brands thought up this limited edition Ring Pop to mimic Kate's engagement ring (which was once Princess Diana's ring). And yes! This Ring Pop is tricked out in Swaroviski crystals... clearly this ring is too pretty to eat! Wondering how much it's worth? $50.00 a pop (and this doesn't nearly touch the cost of the real sexy sapphire engagement ring)! Bazooka Joe Candy Brands is giving away 10 of these rings in their contest this week! Check out contest details HERE ,it ends April 29th... so hurry!

Picture Courtesy of Celebuzz.com

HAPPY E A R T H DAY!!

2011-04-22T17:32:00.004-04:00

*Throws recycled confetti* HAPPY EARTH DAY EVERYBODY!!! I hope everyone is enjoying this eco-friendly day! What have you all been up to on this green day? Although, it is rainy around my parts, those of you that have sunshine in your area...live it up today!!! And remember to recycle responsibly...now go out and be great planeteers :)

P.S. I loved loved LOVED Captain Planet back in the day! I think this show first inspired my love for caring about the planet. Hmmmm if only there was a Captain Planet marathon on tv today...it's just so appropriate, don't you think?

Stop Talking TRASH. Start Talking GREEN.

2011-04-21T19:11:00.004-04:00

Today marks the eve of Earth Day and so many exciting things are going on! So how are you celebrating? Well if you haven't got anything on your "green" agenda, make sure you do something to celebrate the Earth :) The Earth has been kind to you since the day you were born so why not reciprocate the same gesture! Make a pledge today! The Earth Day Network has an amazing campaign going on called "A Billion Acts of Green" and they need your help! Go to their website HERE and make a pledge to do something better for the Earth. It's not just for Earth Day but the campaign will go on into next year and they are trying to make their goal of a billion acts of green (seems like a lot of work right? WRONG!). Help them meet their goal...every little bit counts! So what are you waiting for! Pledge your act of green now...

P.S. Celebrate Earth Day with Starbucks! They are giving away FREE coffee or tea (hot, iced, or brewed) TOMORROW!! Bring your own cup to Starbucks (remember we are trying to be eco-friendly) if you want your free cup of joe!

Picture Courtesy of earthtimes.org

Sustainability is SEXY...Environmental That Is!

2011-04-19T18:08:00.004-04:00

Photo Courtesy of Sterlinggreen.com

If you don't know by now, it's EARTH DAY WEEK *throws recycled confetti*! Earth Day is officially celebrated on April 22 but I have decided to celebrate it all week long (and on) because I think it's sexy to save our planet. I mean come on...this is where we live so it's our responsibility to maintain it if we want the Earth to live long and live strong. So you are probably wondering, what does Earth Day have to do with me?....EVERYTHING!!! Each and everyday of your natural born life you depend on the Earth for your survival. From the food you eat to the clothes you wear even the car you drive (yup it's true). Without Mother Nature, we would all actually... uh... "kick the can" (get it!). Well it's never too late to go GREEN! Here are a few simple tips that might spark your eco-creative fancy....

1) Reuse and be radiant!- Have a clothing swap with your favorite gal pals! Whether your spring cleaning or feeling rather cluttered in your closet, exchanging "gently used" clothes is great way to reuse old clothes instead of putting them in the garbage. What's even better is donating clothes to your local shelter or popular clothing organizations!

2) Stop getting nickle-d and dime-d! Bring your own bags!- To all of my Washington, DC readers (if there are any, let me know in your comment), you know you are getting charged for plastic/paper bags! If you haven't done so, start using a canvas tote that you can bring with you instead of getting charged for your bag. To those of you who aren't being charged, still make a conscious effort to start bringing your own totes for grocery & personal shopping. If you still use plastic bags, at least reuse it again!

3) Sharing is GREEN caring!-Got old magazines/newspapers laying around? De-clutter your home and bring them to the office break room to share with your co-workers. Or slice up your magazines/newspapers to create a vision board of your future goals! Don't forget to recycle your scraps!

4) Brittany Murphy said it best, "Rolling with the homies"- Carpool anytime you can! You are reducing your carbon footprint which cuts back on air pollutions :) Gotta love oxygen!

5) Paper, Plastic, Aluminum oh my!- Recycle, recycle and recycle these items! You'll be a cool kid on the block :) Oh and you can recycle glass too!! Owww...

Now that's what I call "sustaining the sexy"...don't you think?

IT'S SPRING!! What's With The X-mas Lights???

2011-04-17T18:54:00.003-04:00

Photo Courtesy of hinsdalecellars.com

I don't know about you guys BUT it really really really grinds my gears when I see X-mas lights STILL up in April? WTH? Why can't people just accept that the holiday season is over and take down their freaking lights. It's so tacky and down right lazy to assume that it is acceptable to still have lights on the outside of your house.

The worst part is your... still lighting up these lights EVERY night on your house? Why??? And wait...are you still using a timer too in case YOU don't physically turn them on yourself (just shoot me already sheesh). Santa and his reindeer are not making any extra special stops in Spring/Summer or Fall for your tacky lights!!! (sorry...this is just a fact) You are NOT being a cool kid (this does not make your home by any means look more appealing) in the neighborhood, you look like complete idiot actually...smdh. Do you guys see x-mas lights around your neighborhood still?

Earth Day Tip! Make sure your dishwasher has an actual full load before you run it! Cut out pre-washes/rises...save water and lower your water bill by doing this routine :)

Bizarre Dessert: Try Denny's Bacon Sundae?

2011-04-15T18:03:00.004-04:00

BACON FOR DESSERT?!? Thought it was impossible? Well, you are in for a rude porkalicious awakening! Denny's has really out done themselves this time by producing a very interesting "sweet" treat...meet the BACONALIA!! I haven't actually tried this dessert but when I first heard about it at work I couldn't believe someone thought about this recipe. Soooo which one of you braves souls are going to take a wack at this bizarre sundae?

This is how Denny's describes it:

"Bacon makes a classic ice cream sundae even more awesome. We start with maple flavored syrup, and a scoop of rich, creamy vanilla ice cream and then a generous sprinkle of our diced hickory-smoked bacon. Add another sweet layer of syrup and vanilla ice cream topped with even more bacon and a drizzle of syrup."

Would you try it? I'm not a fan of pork (and it would defeat the purpose if I told them to hold the bacon) sooooo which one of you brave readers will try it for me and let me know how it is? Anyone...anyone....is there one....one...no...yes...*waits patiently*

Never Have I Ever Used An Online Dating Site...

2011-04-12T21:03:00.008-04:00

Online dating Sites... they have been quite the topic these days in the dating world and it seems like these days that's the new way to go in meeting someone...I think. I can't really wrap my head around the idea of connecting with someone through a dating site but the commercials on TV always show happy couples flaunting their love (or is it real?). I mean...is it really that bad out there in the dating world? I know the selection maybe a little skimp but who knew you have to resort to a dating site to find your next love connection!?! Sheesh!

It's like the traditional way of meeting someone through a friend or on a random outing is becoming extinct in the romantic world. So what does that mean for the future of dating/relationships/love and marriage? Will we ALL have to eventually conform to using a computer to find the love of our lives? It's pretty sad...almost down right depressing when you think about it but could this really be the future of connecting with your soulmate? They say there is someone out here for everyone and that person is already in love with you before evening knowin you...could the dating site hold the key to Mr.Right/Mrs.Right's heart? Hmmmm...I'm not a fan of online dating (consider me an oldie but goodie in my love approaches) but for those of you who do have an online dating account, has it been a success in you life? I want to hear your thoughts!!!

P.S. Don't forget to follow me on Twitter @thelipstickmemo...tweet me your thoughts too! I'll be waiting! Yay!

If I Had a Nickel For Every Time...

2011-04-05T18:49:00.004-04:00

I was pretty stumped today on what to blog about but I used my handy-dandy "Imagination Prompt Generator" to break me out of this writer's rut. So...I clicked a couple of times on the generator (it gives you random topics) and I landed on this one. If I Had a Nickel For Every Time I saw a BAD weave/extensions, I would be a millionare right now (and yes! I am going there today)! I don't understand why women and even some guys choose to make the entire society suffer with a bad weave. It's just NOT ACCEPTABLE!!!! In fact, it is down right DISRESPECTFUL to prance around town KNOWING your weave is FUGLY!!! I mean seriously!

You know you see the tracks, you know you need to brush it (wash it, treat it, dye it etc. YOU KNOW!!!) and let's just be honest, you know the texture of your natural hair DOES NOT (in no shape, form or fashion) BLEND WITH YOUR WEAVE (this includes non-colored treated weave offenders). I really just can't take it anymore and it really aggravates me to see non-colored natural/helmet/mullet/bird's nest hair. Where are people's REAL friends these days? Sheesh... Please tell your friend! We all have an obligation to this Earth and humankind to end the pollution of bad weaves/extensions our sanity depends on it...

So your probably wondering what else prompted this topic, well, it's started to get warmer outside and that's when you usually see the most redic weaves of your life. It's also the time of year where weaves/extension GO in and REMAIN in till the END OF TIME...argh!

It's APRIL! + Earth Day Love From Jay-Z

2011-04-04T17:36:00.007-04:00

So why does it feel like the year is almost over? Crazy! Spring has been "the pitts" for my allergies AGAIN!?! Argh! AND it's been an annoying time of year because the bicyclists are BACK ahhh! Don't get me wrong! I'm all for lowering the carbon footprint *hugs a tree* BUT what I'm not a fan of is when bicyclists dominate the road like they are a car or something (go find a bike trail thanks, that's what they were made for) Anyhoo, I'm excited for warmer weather AND I'm excited for EARTH DAY (April 22). Although Earth Day is celebrated just for a day, I'm celebrating it the whole month with some trendy green news!!! To kick it off my month long celebration of the Earth, I decided to use the Jigga man himself. Yup! Rapper, Jay-Z has a little "green thumb" believe it or not (well not literally but figuratively). Check out the clip below which aired on MTV's 2006, Diary of Jay-Z Water for Life where Jay-Z explored the scarcities of clean water and poor sanitation in certain countries. Can you imagine waking up and not having clean water to drink, to cook, and to bathe? Can you imagine your life without a toilet? It may sound like simple items to you but to some people these things are a dream....Think about it!

Clip courtesy of MTV.com/Youtube.com

Haute Designer: Juana Martin

2011-03-28T20:44:00.006-04:00

Ever since I saw the ladies of VH1's, Basketball Wives (BBW), see Spanish designer, Juana Martin's collection at Spain's Fashion Week, I fell in LOVE with her clothes. The construction and detail of her clothing is phenomenal! She delivers stylish and sultry looks effortlessly and she knows how to spice up your wardrobe with a little Latin flavor! Although the weather has been wacky on my end, it doesn't mean that I still can't get excited for the summer. As women, one of biggest shopping excitements is looking for new swimwear for the summer. I ran across Juana Martin's Spring/Summer 2011 swimsuit collection and I was in absolute AWE with every garment that hit the runway. There is nothing on (and I mean NOTHING) that I didn't like about her collection...it was perfection like a sweet summer day in July!

There is Something About "Red Bottoms"

2011-03-28T19:51:00.009-04:00

You all have seen 'em? You have seen 'em on the million dollar feet's of Beyonce', Mariah Carey, JLo, Khloe, Paris Hilton, Kim and Kourtney Kardashian, Keri Hilson, Rihanna and many more and we have yet to see another stiletto take over the top spot. Christian Louboutin's are one of THE most sought out pair of heels by many women of the world.

These trademarked "red bottoms" are one of the most simplistic yet genius creations by Mr. Louboutin himself and these stilettos manage to find them selves on the runways of Paris to the red carpets of Hollywood (or courtside at a Lakers game!). His distinctive yet elegant shoes have many celebrity women and ordinary women "head over heels" about the workmanship and comfortability.

In fact, wearing Christian Louboutins are like a VISA, you NEVER want to leave home with out them (on your feet...that is!). I recently stumbled across an interesting article on CNN.com called "Christian Louboutin Reveals Science Behind Perfect High Heels" by Lianne Turner and Laura Allsop and it really got me excited to learn more about "the science" of Christian Louboutin's heels. I enjoyed learning about what inspired Christian Louboutin to create such dazzling shoes! Check out the article and the video, it's shoe fab at it's finest! Now I'm just waiting for my day to be a proud Christian Louboutin owner (sighs).

P.S. Can you guess who is wearing those pair of CL's in the picture above?

Photo Courtesy of highheeljunkie.com

Rest In Paradise Ms. Elizabeth Taylor

2011-03-23T22:38:00.005-04:00

Glamour Goddess. Academy-Award Winning Actress. Mother. Entrepreneur. Humanitarian. Legend. Fashion Icon.

Words still can't even describe the news the world received today about the renowned Academy Award Winning actress, Elizabeth Taylor. This woman has impacted the film, fashion, beauty and philanthropy industries. She wore many hats for many people and still managed to be a mother to all of her children. This striking violet-eyed woman stole the hearts of America and people around the globe for her outstanding efforts in making the world a better place (I guess that's why Michael Jackson and Elizabeth Taylor grew to be such great friends because they both had a passion to make the world a better place).

On paper and on the "big silver screen," Elizabeth Taylor had an amazing run in career and has had the opportunity to work with some of the best in Hollywood while still being revered (to this day) as a role model to many. Thank you for gracing us with your beauty, grace, elegance and poise and we will forever cherish your spirit. She will deeply be missed by her family, friends and fans across the globe but I know she is enjoying heaven and walking the streets paved in gold! Rest Peacefully Ms. Taylor xo!

"I've always admitted that I'm ruled by my passions." -Elizabeth Taylor

Photo Courtesy of cowkitty.net

For the Hopeless Romantics...

2011-03-22T19:04:00.009-04:00

I was driving home from work today when I tuned into the Michael Baisden radio show (S/O to 96.3 WHUR) where he was discussing if 20-somethings could find love their age (or something to that effect). It was quite interesting topic and the mixed responses from listeners triggered passionate rebuttals from the public. Some felt like a person at this age doesn't know what they want in partner while some said people had this age group lacked the maturity level to commit to anything serious. There was one optimistic radio listener who said it is possible for people our age to find love AND appreciate it but it is based on how this person was raised.

Anyhoo, they all made valid points but it got me thinking about an article I ran across a month or so ago (I can't find it now :-/). In summary, the article talked about how we (20-somethings) will date someone now that probably should be the person we marry in our 30-somethings (yeah I know that's a little late but I think this article was speaking to the guys about this piece).

-If you are a 30-something and reading this post, do you believe this to be true?

-If you are a 20-something, do you believe there is someone you have dated so far that you could see yourself with for the rest of your life?

With the world being so chaotic these days, it's really got me thinking about my future and the importance of not wasting ANY MORE time and you shouldn't be either. There are so many hopeless romantics out there *raises hand* but it's very difficult to keep your head and heart above water with so many sharks in the sea (where did all the fish go?). All I am saying is...take a chance! Don't live your love life with the "shouldas, couldas, wouldas" because that's all you'll be doing. If you have a chance to make it right, then DO IT! Quit stopping yourself and your heart from receiving love from someone else, your missing out on one of the greatest "just because" gifts of your life.

Photo Courtesy of All About Soulmate's

Dear Sonic, Please Come to the DMV!

2011-03-21T17:58:00.006-04:00

Is it just me or has anyone from the DMV (DC, MD, or VA areas) been feeling like the Sonic commericals are a HUGE tease because we don't have one locally? And NO, I am not talking about Sonic the Hedgehog (S/O to Sega!), I am talking about the good ole Sonic, "Home of the American Drive-In" restaurant. I mean seriously Sonic, you really are crushing my stomach spirit. I have only had Sonic ONE time in my life, that's right ONCE and I haven't had it anymore (I swear it changed my foodie life). The food looks so yummy and wonderful (which it is) on the commercials! My eyes light up with excitement but THEN, I remember there is no point in getting excited because there isn't a Sonic around me. Oh why? What's the point of showing Sonic commericals to the DMV area if there isn't one near by?Ugh! I thought I would be able to stomach typing this blog post but I see that I am becoming sad all over again :( (and hungry!) If there is a corporate Sonic representative reading this blog, please consider putting a Sonic in the DMV area (sorry Baltimore and Fredericksburg, VA don't count), PLEASE and thank you!

Photo courtesy of bonairbuzz.com

The HOT & BOTHERED Memo...

2011-03-14T19:09:00.003-04:00

My brain is storming with ideas, thoughts, moments, dreams...you name it...it's happening as I type this blog. There have been three things that I have been wanting to write about and here it goes...

1) Something that has me bothered...The Earthquake/Tsunami of Japan

I woke up this morning not even recognizing this world anymore. Every time I wake up, I see more and more it is a privilege to be living, a privilege to possess material things and a privilege to just be ME. I feel like lately something has come over me and I'm not afraid to hold back from my dreams and just simply LIVE...that is all. It deeply troubles my heart to know that Japan is going through such a devastating situation and it hits me close to home because I have a loved one overseas in the Navy (who is okay by the way) who is trying to represent our country. I know everyone is tired of hearing about how hard times are but the reality is...it is! You only get one life to live...so how are you LIVING yours today?

2) Something that has me bothered....NFL Lockout???

I may love all things fashion but who said a girl couldn't love a little football either? Well, if there is still is a NFL. Who knew this all-American sport was in danger? If you were lost like I was before, a lockout basically ends all football related activities (training camps, scouting, weight training, GAMES etc.) because NFL team owners and players have reached a the end of their collective bargaining agreement (if you want to know what that means...Google it). Anyhoo, it's a sad time in the athletic world especially for potential rookies and free agents (yeah they are being extra shafted right now). No one is really sure how long this lockout will be but if they don't reach a decision by April 28-April 30 (Draft time) then we may not have a football season. Sorry guys!

3) Something that has me hot....Marsha Ambrosius "Late Nights & Early Mornings" Album

Through all the bad, music is one of my favorite remedies when I want to tune out the chaos of the world. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE LOVE LOVE Marsha Ambrosius first solo album. If you haven't heard Miss. "Late Nights & Early Mornings" voice, you are truly missing out a magical retreat. Tracks like "Your Hands," "Faraway," "Late Nights and Early Mornings" (soo reminds me of a Prince track) "Chasing Clouds" and "With You" have sweet melodic beats with fiery lyrics! I have NEVER heard a voice like Marsha's before and I think that's why I love her especially when her Floetry days were in motion (it's Floetic uh it's Floetic). Her album is refreshing, intimate and sensual (hands down). Her high-pitched vocal range is enchanting and she belts out ever note with passion (this maybe her first solo album but she ain't no amateur y'all). This British-born-belle has one of THE most timeless voices I have EVER heard in my generation and I am so excited to hear her next album. I am proud to stand with other MARSHIANS today dolls because Marsha Ambrosius has revived the pulse of REAL Female R&B music. Please take a bow! #FutureGrammyWinner Please support her dolls!

FB Confessions: WEIRDOS Are WACK

2011-03-11T18:48:00.004-05:00

Photo Courtesy of dreambank.org

When I think of "RR," I am thinking about "Random Rants" of items that get underneath my SKIN. Facebook, by far is #losing with all these weirdos, creeps, and crazies (whatever you want to call them) lurking around my page! Just when I thought my profile was under lock and key from weirdos, I still CAN'T understand how these creepy guys that I DON'T EVEN KNOW find me. And the worst part is they sometimes have the audacity to write me a note asking me out (yikes). Like are you seriously expecting a reply? Seriously? (-_-) Are we even living in the same zip code, state, country? NO NO NO!! *deep sigh* The last time I checked, Facebook was not Match.com or eHarmony (and I have nothing against these sites by the way!) so what in the H-E-DOUBLE HOCKEY STICKS makes you think you have a chance with me. Okay! I get it, the dating pool is shallow but I think some people are becoming completely desperate these days! SMH! I'm glad you have confidence to ask but it DEFINITELY doesn't give you brownie points for swag! SORRY! I feel bad for celebrity actress, models and socialites.....I can only imagine what type of weird stuff they see on a daily basis (gasps!). Am I wrong for feeling this way? Leave one. xo!

This is WHY I Rock the Red Pump...

2011-03-10T19:30:00.005-05:00

Today is National Woman and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and I'm participating in the occasion with the ladies of the Red Pump Project. While my day in DC was a rather soggy one (and the rain still dances on my windowpane), I still actively tweeted and now blogged my thoughts about today's importance (picture of me in red pumps coming soon!). I truly hope you all participated in tweeting, blogging, telling a friend or loved one about today because it is so important to KNOW YOUR STATUS! For those of you that didn't know by now but AIDS ARE REAL...period. It doesn't matter how old you are or the color of your skin, it is a universal disease that can infect ANYONE. There is nothing funny about this disease and it's important that you educate and protect yourself and others from falling victim to it.

Still don't believe me? Well believe these statistics:

Did you know...In 2009, nearly a quarter of HIV infections in the U.S. were among women and girls aged 13 years or older!

Did you know...By the end of 2008, almost 184,000 women and girls were living with HIV.

Did you know...HIV is 20 times higher in African American women than in White women and four times higher in Latino women.

Did you know...The Center for Disease Control and Prevention estimates 1 in 5 people live with an HIV infection and DO NOT KNOW ABOUT IT!!! (meaning count five people around you AT LEAST ONE of you could be living with it...scary)

Are you ready to wake up now? Thought so! The awareness doesn't stop here! Do you live in ATLANTA, CHARLOTTE OR CHICAGO? Well the Red Pump Project has ambassadors in each of these cities and they are hosting super sweet events to benefit the Red Pump Project. For more information click here.

HIV/AIDS Statistics Courtesy of the CDC.gov

Ready, Set...ROCK Your Red PUMPS!

2011-03-08T22:38:00.003-05:00

It's almost that time dolls! As some of you may know, my blog has partnered with the Red Pump Project to assist in spreading awareness about the impact of HIV/AIDS on women and girls across the nation (click on the banner on the right -->). The Red Pump Project has been working diligently to actively recruit bloggers from all corners of the blogosphere to help fuel this national effort of recognizing National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (NWGHAAD) which is MARCH 10! So how are we celebrating? We are stepping out in style of course, in our very own RED PUMPS to stand on a purpose of combating this epidemic and I challenge you to join us on March 10 to strut your stuff in red pumps!

The best part is the Red Pump Project has ambassadors from major cities who are hosting events in honor of NWGHAAD! So if your in Charlotte, Atlanta, Dallas or Chicago, there are events for you!

From a tease pole party in Charlotte to a fashionable fierce fashion show in Chicago there lies some exciting events in these cities! Want more info click here! I hope to see you all standing with us in red pumps :)

Tweet me @thelipstickmemo if your joining the movement xo!

Twitter UPDATE: Got the "Memo?"

2011-03-06T19:42:00.003-05:00

Picture Courtesy of Technorati.com

I can't believe I have been on Twitter for ALMOST two weeks and I'm an addict. It's one of the MOST entertaining contraptions in the digital world and I CAN'T believe it took me this long to join. I'm not sure why I was so anti-Twitter at first but now that I am typing this post I remember it had something to do with understanding the purpose of "Tweeting" (and things of that nature). Twitter sounded more like a playground for digital stalkers (because we are all taught not to be followers in life and yet following is required on Twitter...hmmm who is really leader?...oh the irony) and that my dolls did not amuse me ONE bit (stalkers can kick boulders!) and I allowed this judgement to get the best of me. So to make amends, here is my blog-o-pology!

Dear Twitter,

I am sorry for misjudging you! You absolutely rock my socks and @thelipstickmemo has become a new creative outlet for thoughts and an opportunity to receive pure comedy from my followers and the people I follow (especially when my day is a DRAG). Every second of your existences makes my life just tad bit more entertaining. Thank you for your unique qualities and remaining true to your creative purpose. Your the bomb.com!

With love,

ELLe. xo!

Everybody Needs a Little "Amour Vert"

2011-03-03T19:00:00.006-05:00

Spring is right around the corner and the question is...is your closet ready? My closet is in dire need of a wardrobe makeover...like yesterday. Unfortunately, I haven't really been inspired much UNTIL I found this adorable sustainable-friendly clothing line called "Amour Vert" ( means Green Love in French). I so facinated by eco-fashion and the materials eco-designers use to create radiant masterpieces.

According to Amour Vert's website, they create their green designs from "bamboo, organic cotton, peace silk" (just to name a few) and these pieces look like something you would see off the runways of Paris. Speaking of Paris, the designer, Linda Balti is a native of Paris and she grew her passion for "green fashion" in the studios of Paris and then later moved to the sunny bay of Cali-for-ni-a to start her business! Her workmanship is impeccable and the best part is the collection is SUPER affordable! So what are you waiting for check out this stunning Amour Vert's Spring/Summer 2011 collection clip below.

Video Courtesy of Amour Vert (Spring/Summer 2011)

10 CRAZY Tax Deductions That FAILED!!!

2011-03-01T19:27:00.016-05:00

I LOVE LOVE LOVE CNN.com and love even more when I find funny articles like "They Tried to Deduct What?" by Blake Ellis of CNNMoney.com about how American try to use outlandish things to deduct from their taxes. Anyhoo, we are in the midst of tax season (last day to file is April 18) and let's be real people we are in some SUPER TOILET TIMES...yup I said it. This article delighted me in many ways and it just confirmed how CRAZY we are in this country. I can't believe some of these people actually thought these were legit reasons!

According to CNNMoney.com, here are the top 10 CRAZY things people try to deduct from their taxes:

1) Prostitutes (Wowsers!)

2) Emu Feathers (SMH, it's bad enough people where these jokes on their feet)

3) Candy & Flowers for Secretaries (Seriously people? Where is the sentimental value?)

4) Buffalo Meat (Ewww)

5) UNDERWEAR (NOW YOU ALL KNOW YOU ARE WRONG FOR THIS ONE... lol..smh)

6) Loofa Sponges (oh the price to be pretty)

7) Aquarium

8) Sperm Donations (ummmm....*blank stare*)

9) Nail Polish Remover

10) Scientology Class

Do you have anything that you wish you could write off on your taxes? Put your wish list in my comments or tweet them to me @thelipstickmemo!

For the DIE HARD Chipotle Fans....

2011-02-28T17:23:00.006-05:00

*SORRY THIS OPPORTUNITY HAS EXPIRED*

Boy do I have treat for you blog followers today! I was minding my business at work when SUDDENLY one of my co-workers shared with me a super amazing deal this week at Chipotle. If you go to DealstoBuy.com (<--click here, I made it easy for you guys) you can receive A BUY ONE GET ONE FREE COUPON ON BURRITOS, BOWLS, TACOS AND SALADS!!! Redeem you coupon NOW! The fun all ends March 4 :) Wondering if it's legit! Heck yes! My co-worker already went over the weekend SO what are you waiting for? Print, eat, and love Chipotle!

Writer's Block Has Taken My Mind Hostage

2011-02-24T22:11:00.004-05:00

There is nothing more frustrating then when you feel like writing but you have nothing to say! That's how I feel right now! I feel like I have to do a magic trick just to pull out a topic these days (so annoying). I think I'm just drained from the week and I probably just need a vacation (sigh). Tomorrow is a new day AND it's Friday *blows party horn*

Didn't get the "Memo"? Follow me @thelipstickmemo

Hello TWITTER World :)

2011-02-23T22:15:00.004-05:00

I have only been on Twitter (@thelipstickmemo) for FIVE days and I'm already an addict! Maybe this is why I have steered clear of this social networking apparatus! Anyhoo, while I'm only a couple of days strong, I need FOLLOWERS. Now I know we were told growing up that we should be leaders and not followers but don't take that statement to literal in this sense. The Lipstick Memoir wants to CONNECT with you! So for my bloggers out there with super cute tweets, post your info in my comments (big smile)! I'm still "the new girl" on Twitter so uhhhh any pointers would be greatly appreciated.

P.S. I have a Blackberry so I have the "Uber Social" app! (pow!)

See you there gems!

xo,

ELLe.

Lady Gaga Creating a "Blood and Semen" Perfume

2011-02-22T22:56:00.005-05:00

As you know dolls, a lot of celebrities really wouldn't be where they are today unless they dropped a fragrance and by far I think Lady Gaga has stolen the perfumnista spotlight! According to Wonderwall, Lady Gaga "donated her own blood to create" her first fragrance (which is expected to hit stores next year) so that her "little monsters" could "wear" her on their skin *scratches head.* Her fragrance is apparently inspired by sex which brought her to this "out of the box" idea to try and bottle this THEN I read over at Fashionista.com that Lady Gaga is trying to "recreate the smells of blood and semen" (it did not say anything about using Lady Gaga's drops of blood) so my question IS...would YOU buy this perfume? I know that Lady Gaga is known for her over-the-top fashion sense and she definitely isn't afraid of speaking out but WHEN is it too far? Or do you think this "bodily fluid" inspired fragrance will be selling off the shelves? I'm not going to lie, I am definitely interested in smelling this stuff, I wonder what she is going to name it? *ponders*

In RED Pump Rocker News...

2011-02-17T18:20:00.004-05:00

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE FOUNDERS OF THE RED PUMP PROJECT!!! You dolls did it! *blows party horn.* Their goal was to recruit "500 bloggers in 50 days" to spread awareness about their organization which is all working hard to support National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (NWGHAAD) on March 10 and they surpassed their goal. Theses ladies recruited 650 bloggers and 25 days and the numbers continue to grow!

So what is the "Project?"

The Red Pump Project was organized by two lovely dolls, Karyn and Luvvie, who share not only a passion for fashionably cute pumps but also a passion for combating HIV/AIDS that affect the lives women and girls daily. It's one of the most fabulous and fiercest non-profit campaigns I have EVER been apart of in my life *hand claps.* So what are you waiting for? Join one of the most fiercest movements of your life?

Be a Red Pump Rocker! There is always room for more bloggers to come on board to help spread the message up until HIV/AIDS Awareness Day and the best part is we are all going to ban together in wearing our red pumps. I challenge you to join!

Did you know? In 2006, there were 15,000 new HIV infections and 9,801 AIDS cases diagnosed among women.

Did you know? From the beginning of the epidemic through 2005, almost 86,000 women have died of AIDS and AIDS-related complications.

HIV/AIDS Facts courtesy of The Red Pump Project Fact Sheet

Here Comes the Bride ALL "Outfitted" in White

2011-02-15T18:11:00.006-05:00

Ah the Grammys came and went like a thief in the night and many of us pondered who was really "Grammy Glam" and who was "Grammy Garbage" (cough cough) but the fashion show must go on. I recently discovered that Urban Outfitters really has out done their selves this time as they have released their new wedding collection, BHLDN. So besides jazz-ma-tazzing your wardrobe with their eclectic "Urban" chic wear, dolls, you can now look stunning in one of their wedding gowns (that's if your getting married of course!). So before you say "yes to the dress" and "I do" to your groom, you need to take a look at these stunning gowns. Now unfortunately nothing in life is free (especially if it's grade A quality), so yeah the prices don't seem that bad but if your on a tight budget this could break your price point ($1,600-$3,000) but hey, it's not everyday you get to be a blushing bride right? Don't forget to check out the rest of their collection :)

Thanx BERRY Munch:Love is BLUE-tiFUL

2011-02-10T19:28:00.005-05:00

Omg! I had ONE of the most divine snacks of my life today at work. Have you ever had chocolate covered BLUEBERRIES? This time of year many people are running around trying to get their hands on chocolate covered strawberries for V-day but after trying one handful of these berries I fell in love (Yum-O). Today, I had the Brookside Chocolate Covered Blueberries and they were AMAZING (please check them out)!! I have never had a chocolate covered blueberry in all my life and now I have declared it to be my new "guilty" indulgence (well, I shouldn't feel guilty because blueberries and chocolate are actually good for you... SWEET!). I even read that they make chocolate covered pomegranate treats too (oooohh yeah). Anyhoo, I want you all to try it and tell me what you think? What other fruit do you all like that is covered in chocolate?

Give the gift of chocolate covered blueberries on V-day!!!

P.S. I love these berries so much that I EVEN wrote a testimony about it on Brookside's website! I hope I win their chocolate prize *fingers crossed*

KHLOMAR Introduces "Unbreakable" Fragrance

2011-02-08T22:37:00.006-05:00

Looks like the perfume business is in overdrive these days and I wonder if it's because V-day is around the corner *scratches head.* Anyhoo, I stumbled across a media blurb today that Reality TV star, Khloe' Kardashian Odom and her hubby, L A. Lakers baller, Lamar Odom have created a delightful UNISEX perfume. Now out of my twenty-something years of living, I have NEVER smelled a unisex perfume before but I am looking forward to my first unisex smelling experience. The "Unbreakable" perfume for men and women has already made it's mark on Perfumania where they have an extra special gift set going on sell right now for V-day (hurry while the MP-3 player supplies last!).

I know this is an exciting occasion for Khloe' and Lamar because it's not everyday you hear about a celeb couple coming out with a perfume. I love the fact that this perfume also dropped right around V-day because they will always have this perfume to be a creative representation of their commitment and union to each other (big smile). So your probably wondering what did these two bottle up? According to Perfumania, "Unbreakable" has "a blend of Italian bergamot, sparkling clementine, Asian saffron, green apple, African geranium, sheer jasmine, lily of the valley, juicy red fruits, Texas cedarwood, tonka bean, vanilla bean and dark chocolate" (yum).

"Purr"-fumnista Fab:Katy Perry Drops New Scent

2011-02-07T18:59:00.007-05:00

This "California Girl" has a lot to be excited about today in fact it has to be one of the most "purr" fect days for Pop singer, Katy Perry. Besides rocking out to her catchy tunes, you can now catch a whiff of her too because her new fragrance "Purr" has hit the shelves. Wondering what this perfume smells like? Well according to Fragrantica.com, she managed to bottle up "peach, forbidden apple, gardenia, green bamboo with a heart of jasmine, pink freesia, Bulgarian rose and a base of vanilla orchid, creamy sandalwood, white amber, coconut and musk." Now doesn't that sound like the "purr" -fect perfume. I am eager to get my hands on a bottle of this stuff, now if only this perfume was a potion that could transform me into her picture above then I would be one hot kitty too! Meowwwwwww...LOL!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELMO!

2011-02-03T19:10:00.002-05:00

In honor of all things red this month, I just wanted to give a Happy Birthday shout out to ELMO!! I grew up watching Sesame Street and Elmo was always my favorite furry friend! His laugh is priceless! XO!

Six Inch Walker: Are YOU a RED Pump Rocker?

2011-02-03T18:50:00.006-05:00

So we all know it's February (*throws confetti*) and we also know things around us are turning rouge but with GREAT reason. Besides it being the love month, the Red Pumps Project has defined red to represent a magnificent mission to save the lives of women and girls across the nation. So are you ready to "strut your stuff" in red pumps? I challenge you dolls to become apart of this awesome initative to combat HIV/AIDS that continues to infect a life EVERY 9 1/2 mins (yeah you read it right)! Did you know there are approximately 1.1 million people living with HIV/AIDS in the U.S. and 280,000 are women? Did you know that the rate of AIDS diagnosis for Black women was approximately 23 times the rate for White women and 4 times the rate for Latina women?
So let your blog be the "platform"to spread awareness and why not look fab in red pumps for an awesome cause. Right now, the Red Pumps Project has challenged their selves to recruit 500 bloggers in 50 days leading up to support their nationwide initiative on March 11, 2011 (Save the Date!). The sign up is super easy (I just did it! Check out my banner to your right) so I dare you to become a "Red Pump Rocker" too. There are some "big red shoes to fill" here ladies, are you ready to strut for your life?

*All statistical data was courtesy of The Red Pump Project Fact Sheet